Carrot Cake Parfaits
My husband and I very rarely argue.
But when we do, it is about housework.
My husband never understands why I stomp loudly around the house with a Swiffer Duster, glaring angrily while he reads the newspaper.
He’s puzzled when I emerge from drying my hair 5 minutes before we leave for church and am infuriated at the sight of him and my son watching hunting shows on TV, my child’s hair uncombed, teeth unbrushed, and shoes nowhere to be found.
“Why are you so mad? You know I’ll do anything you ASK me to do…”
ASK being the key word.
It’s like a husband loophole.
Never mind that we leave for church the same time every Sunday and my son always has to have shoes and brushed teeth.
Never mind that my husband has had to dig through the lost sock basket to find a pair to wear 3 times this week.
If I don’t actually pose it as a question, it doesn’t need done in real life.
Man logic – It’s a thing, and it’s basically my mortal enemy.
Sometimes, when I’m in the middle of one of my stomping, mean glare, angry cleanings, my husband will be all, “You know, it seems like I’m always in trouble but you know what? I NEVER get you in trouble”
That’s when I’m like, “well, I keep a spotless house, cook fabulous meals, and am basically raising a child prodigy. If I was married to me, I wouldn’t ever get me in trouble either”.
It’s like he’s trying to get me in trouble for being the perfect wife or something. Quite frankly, it’s ridiculous.
I mean, I am sorry, but if doing everything the exact right way it is supposed to be done all the time is WRONG, then lock me up and throw away the key.
And when I’m NOT busy raising our future president, keeping our home dust and allergen free, and loads of other super important things, I’m usually making desserts.
See? Important.
Last year, while visiting Branson, MO for a few days, I went in this awesome bakery that had the coolest cake desserts. One of them was cups that had a layer of whipped mousse in the bottom, topped with cake and frosting. The mousse had a light, ice cream like texture and the combination was amazing.
I decided to recreate that dessert with an orange creamsicle mousse, carrot cake, and cream cheese frosting.
I topped it off with pecans and a cherry, because it seemed like the obvious thing to do.
These taste almost like a cake and ice cream combo…they are really really good! I can’t wait to try other flavor combinations…the possibilities are endless!Carrot Cake Parfaits
INGREDIENTS
- 12 1/2 pint canning jars
- Carrot Cake, baked and cooled (I used Duncan Hines Decadent Carrot Cake Mix, baked in two 9 inch round pans)
- Mousse:
- 8 oz block cream cheese, softened
- 1/3 cup orange juice
- 1/2 cup powdered sugar
- 8 oz tub Cool Whip
- Frosting:
- 8 oz block cream cheese, softened
- 1 stick (1/2 cup) butter, softened
- 1 teaspoon vanilla
- 4 cups powdered sugar
- Chopped pecans and maraschino cherries, for garnish
INSTRUCTIONS
1. Prepare Mousse: In the bowl of a mixer, whip cream cheese with the whip attachment until smooth. Add orange juice and whip until combined. Running the mixer on low, add powdered sugar. Once powdered sugar is mixed in, increase speed to medium high and beat until smooth. Fold in Cool Whip until completely mixed in. Refrigerate until you’re ready to use.
2. Prepare Frosting: In the bowl of a mixer, beat cream cheese and butter until combined. Add vanilla and powdered sugar and beat on low until just combined. Increase speed to medium high and beat for about a minute, until frosting is smooth, light, and fluffy.
3. Cut cake into circles that fill fit in the jars. You can either use a round biscuit or cookie cutter, or the mouth of one of the jars you will be using.
4. Pipe or spoon a layer of mousse in the bottom of each jar. Carefully press a cake circle on top, and finish by piping or spooning frosting on top of that. Add a cherry and sprinkle with chopped pecans.
5. Place a lid on each jar and chill until ready to serve.
If you want to see ANOTHER fun dessert using creamsicle flavor, my friend Shelly made Creamsicle Cookies that look amazing!! Pop over and take a look!!





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Yeah, the man loophole sucks. Just today we went through this. It’s pretty awesome having to remember EVERYTHING IN THE UNIVERSE so we can be on time ANYWHERE!
But I am pretty sure carrot cake and creamsicle mousse could solve my problems. Eating feelings is the best.
Give me a spoon!
Totally understand your perspective! I get so irritated when my husband just doesn’t SEE the things around the house that he could do and SHOULD do (like put his socks in the hamper and not throw papers/check stubs on my freshly-cleaned and decluttered furniture.
Just started reading your blog recently & love it! You have such a talent for writing & cooking….keep it coming!
hahaha, my husband is exactly the same way! Although I’m not the perfect housekeeper you are so I try to cut him some slack. I started reading your blog a couple months ago, and while all your posts are funny, I loved this one in particular. Thanks for always making me laugh!
You hit the nail on the head with that husband loophole! I hate when my husband assumes I’m doing everything that needs to be done for the kids. As if I’m the only parent. Ugh!!
I’m not sure about the cherry, but the rest of the parfait looks… well,… parfait!
Oh. My. God. PREACH IT WOMAN! I’m not even married yet, and my boyfriend drives me nuts with his man habits. We live with his parents so it’s us and our son in ONE room so every little thing out of place makes it look like three times the mess. I hate that I’d have to ASK for his help, stupid man loophole!
Also, these look fab!!
I love carrot cake. These are PERFECT! That THICK layer of frosting…Omg heaven!
ha ha ha. hit the bull’s eye; every wife is going to agree with you :D
Coincidentally I made carrot cake yesterday … using some of it up as a parfait sounds like a great idea!
I told Shelley just a bit ago… I was surprised to read my blog feed tonight & find these! I made Creamsicle Cupcakes just this afternoon! :-)
Thank you for the Fantastic recipe. Sounds yummy
ColleenB.
I don’t understand how husbands always need us to ask them to do something… after so much time can’t they just know??
This Duncan Hines Carrot Cake mix is one of the best ever. I know this had to taste awesome!
*Man Logic* I think that’s has to be an oxymoron LOL (just kidding). Your dessert looks delicious and that creamsicle mousse sounds wonderful.
Hubby and I are huge fans of carrot cake, so these are definitely going on the list of desserts we HAVE to try. Thanks!
OMG!!! Are we married to the same man?? Or is it all of them? Mine does the exact same thing, all the time! Like , me…chicken w/my head cut off. Him…playing a computer game or checking email! Then he asks why it takes me so long to get ready??? Um, maybe becaue I got three people ready while you played on the computer??? LOL! Great blog! And this recipe sounds delish!
You are adorable!!!! This looks delicious!! Please make a chocolate combo!
Wow that looks so delish!
AWESOME! gotta pin it!
LOL!! It is obviously part of the “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” Conundrum!! The most annoying thing said to me, when I’m already in my PJ’s, ready for bed, and I see the rubbish bin is near to over-flowing and go outside to empty it in said PJ’s is ….. “Why didn’t you ASK me to do it???? Aaaarggghh, are you kidding me!! But seriously, love your blog and recipes! Keep ‘em coming!!
This is hilarious. Housework is the only thing that my husband and I argue about too. I think I’ll definitely be making him take me on a trip to Branson for this awesome bakery you talk about. These look amazing!
Do husbands go to some class where they are taught that line “I will do anything you ASK”? But until then I will sit and watch TV. Seriously?! Most annoying thing EVER!
I love desserts in jars, these are so cute!
Carrot cake is one of my favorites!
Looking forwarding to making for upcoming party. What size jar did you use?
Your post always make me laugh!! Thank you!
1/2 pint…I buy mine in the canning section of Walmart. You can get a whole box pretty inexpensively. Thank you for reading!!
This is the same thing that happens every Sunday morning at our house. I iron for the kids and do my girls hair(2) because I don’t want them show up with their hair all messy, like they don’t own a comb, hairsprays, and of course I want to use all those hair accessories that have cost me fortunes! I rarely have time to do my hair and end up doing my makeup in the car on our way to church. Meanwhile my son is playing with the Kinect or reading a book, so when we are about to leave my son comes out with messed up hair and doesn’t know what to wear, and my husband is all like ASK YOUR MOM!!!! Really, seriously???? Oh and during this time my husband has been taking a super relaxed shower (with no girls complaining that he is pulling their hair_or saying they don’t want that hair style) and fixing his hair to PERFECTION….(no joke). And not to mention, that he takes a super long time to shave (when he should have shaved the night before!!!!!!!!). Then, he asks me ARE YOU MAD????? and I’m al like –.– Story of my life!!!!!!
Like I told my friend who had a similar argument, men have a hard time thinking beyond the box with consideration to other people. Women expect men to think in a logical order, you have to give a little. He comes in a bit, you come in a bit, you don’t meet in the middle, but one day, your sons teeth will be brushed or he will have shoes. It may only happen once a year, but that’s how it is.
When my son was little getting him to take a bath or brush his teeth was . . . a HUGE deal. Then he turned 13 and discovered GIRLS. I couldn’t get him out of the shower and he’d use buckets of shampoo and his teeth sparkled. So, all you mom’s need to do is . . . just wait.
Wow… I am somehow relieved to read that so many others argue about chores.
My husband also always says he doesn’t “see” the dust bunnies in the corners, or dishes piled from sink to ceiling. But when I ask him to do something and get antsy when he doesn’t start moving, his favorite line is “I didn’t say I would do it NOW!”
Argh…hand me some carrot cake…
I am expected to put in 10 to 12 hours a day in our shop and do EVERYTHING in raising the kids and keeping the household chores done. So amazing desserts like this make my life even better. This is so surprising, thank you for sharing.
You are too cute; these are too cute. The end.
Mmm carrot cake yum…may I have a spoon please?
This hit home tonight, my husband is awesome and I love him dearly but he is still such a man , we have a newborn so lots of adjustments. I love cooking and keeping it all together but I am always doing 15 things at once and have planned how I’m gonna tackle the next 15 things. Yes frustrating when they say ” all you have to do is ask, I don’t know what needs to be done, you just have to tell me! ” i didn’t know just how much my mom juggled as a mom until I just became one. Moms don’t Get enough credit, we pay attention to all the details and still put a fantastic home cooked meal on the table by 6. Loved your blogg and love your recipe, going to try to make one this weekend:)
Men don’t “see” the way women do. If they did I KNOW they’d know what needed to be done. And of course they’d cheerfully do it. Right? Whenever I asked my husband to do something he would do it in a way that I’d never ask him to ever do that chore again. Like: We’d just moved into a house that had a brand NEW, beautiful, shiny vinyl floor. I asked him to be please clean it. All he needed to do was sweep it then rinse it off with a sponge — and the sponge only needed hot water. He sprinkled Comet cleanser all over it. Took off the shine. Forever ruined. Sob. Sometimes you just have to carry a grudge. For forty years. Naturally, I’m always pretty practically perfect in every way. Me and Mary Poppins.
Everything is more fun to eat from jars, or on sticks:) Keep up the good work with raising our future president!
That dessert is so-o wickedly scrumptious looking! Happy Easter!
I got a little behind, but I just had to come back and tell you how pretty/awesome these are!
I love that this is in a jar. So easy to take it on-the-go and so easy to give to someone as a gift. Perfect.
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How far in advance do you think these can be assembled? I don’t want the mousse to get icky. Would the day before be ok?
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